For instance: He's super-sensitive. So often he'll talk about people taking advantage of him or making fun of him, when I know they really weren't. I've had to (only on a few occassions) defend myself, or my family about remarks that he takes out of context. To note: he doesn't have a temper about it. An upside to his sensitivity is that he likes to talk things over. But it annoys me that he can't handle those joking moments without thinking that someone is being mean to him.

Another thing is that he tends to be VERY frugal. We've already had disagreements about money. I worry that we'll fight about money a lot if we get married.

My question is, so I'm handling this now (with struggle), but how can I tell if I'll be able to handle it in 30 years?